I Had a Threesome with My Boyfriend and the Girl He Was Cheating on Me with

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We may earn commission from links on this page, but we only recommend products we love. Any tips? Jan 14, Getty Images My guy and I have been dating a few months, and everything is going really well except for one thing. He wants to have a threesome. I told him I'm up for it, but the more it becomes a reality, I feel nervous and insecure. First things first: Just because you told your boyfriend that you'd be up for a threesome doesn't mean you have to go through with it. You can change your mind.

You really like him, and you appreciate he really likes you, too. It comes in like a raincloud creeping on the horizon: the inevitable threesome proposition. To be honest, it makes me disappointed. Is that so boring? Am I so boring? In our sex-obsessed culture, it often seems akin to wanting a monogamous relationship makes you some kind of freak. Everyone has fantasies, so you should praise him for his honesty. If you bring into disrepute him, you might make him awkward and reluctant to talk honestly a propos his feelings in the future. This is especially important if you assume you might want to pursue a serious relationship with him.

Women's Health may earn commission from the links on this page, but we only feature products we believe all the rage. Why trust us? Jul 13, Shutterstock It's no secret that a allocation of guys have a fascination along with threesomes. And at some point, your S. But there's a big alteration between occasionally drooling over the belief and actively pursuing it as an option.

The psychology of the threesome: everyone wants one, but who's truly ready designed for it? He and his partner were out at a restaurant with her friend, another bisexual woman. The aim of a threesome came up all over again over dinner. A threesome is the most common sexual fantasy among Americans, according to a survey of 4, individuals carried out by the Kinsey Institute sex researcher Dr Justin Lehmiller for his book Tell Me Can you repeat that? You Want. Studies in the US and Canada have established that a propos one person in every five has engaged in it in some appearance, at some point in their lives — making it about as coarse as owning a cat.

JENN, My boyfriend suggested a threesome along with a third woman. I've always been curious, so I'm game. But I'm also nervous about hurting our affiliation if things go awry. How be able to we prepare for — and avert — that?