“Bow Down”: Rethinking the Implications of Male Submission Through BDSM

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All the rage other words, the submissive holds the power, or at least as a good deal power as their dominant partner. After that yet, many straight men and women still balk at the idea of male submission. Long-held patriarchal stereotypes — bolstered in recent years by the 50 Shades of Grey franchise — hold that men typically assume a dominant role in bed, as all the rage life, while women naturally trend acquiescent. But while many individuals may be concerned about their dominant or submissive roles an integral part of their identity, ascendancy and submission, like sexuality itself, be on a broad and fluid band, one people of all genders should feel free to explore in the bedroom without having to worry a propos what any single act might about about them.

We all recognise the popular image of submissive men who worship women after that get off on being dominated. I wrote about it recently and had many positive responses from people saying they totally understood the motives. Accordingly why is it that submissive women are often perceived very differently? After I spoke of my intention en route for write an article about submissive women, I was surprised by the damaging reaction. This response is perhaps clear on the surface, but it misses the point. Sexual kinks and fetishes do not usually translate from the bedroom to the outside world, accede to alone to the boardroom. Surely the very point of equality is acknowledging that women can have the alike desires as men? And the actuality that so many women hold positions of power these days makes it more likely that some of them will get off on the accomplish of occasionally handing over that ability in the most intimate ways conceivable. Surely everyone should be free en route for indulge their kinks without shame before judgment, regardless of gender?

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